This second episode of Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen takes an look at the Cass Identity Model for Coming Out. I talk about each of the developmental stages, and share personal stories, give examples of what to expect and how to best support your child through the process. The stages are as follows:
- Identity Confusion
- Identity Comparison
- Identity Tolerance
- Identity Acceptance
- Identity Pride
- Identity Synthesis
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Here are links to articles and resources I mentioned in the show:
Book
Articles / Blog Posts
- Cass Identity Model
- Empty Closets
- The Stages of Coming Out – Strong Family Alliance
- Information for Parents of LGBTQ Kids
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