Tips for Responding to Non-Affirming or Unsupportive Family and Friends

035 – Heather responds to a listener's question about how to handle someone who is non-affirming with a tip and example-filled "101" episode.

She discusses the importance of word choice, gives several general tips, and three detailed examples based on the listener's situation, how to respond to a Christian family member or friend, and how to handle those who are homophobic.

Heather references three powerful resources:
Queer Theology
Nathanial Totten Green blog
letter on PFLAG

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